Haha! A serious topic but a smile on face! Yep! These days it has become a trend to have boyfriend/girlfriend 😀 The one who is single is always used to be teased by peer groups! Though it is not funny, but it is reality!
Being a student there are a lot of responsibilities which has to be done within the given time! Between all these, maintaining love relationships is not so easy. Among love and education which is more important? Its truly it is Tough Tie to choose one among Love and Education/Career?? Let us consider that, we haven’t chosen any one among these two, instead we are trying our best to manage the both love and education/career, which are truly opposite of one another! If, suppose, in some situation something happens as such your partner wants to break-up with you!! What’s next?? If you are not so serious about your love relationship with your partner, it is not a big deal for you to ignore! What if, you have taken him/her so seriously! Then what!?
As much as it is common to get into the relationship/being in relationship, it is not so rare to break-up! Isn’t it? Some people might say ‘yes’ and some might say ‘no’, but it is! We are not focusing on the one who is not so serious about his/her relationship. We are only focusing on those who are truly serious about relationship!
Before taking any decision or worrying, always remember ‘nothing is permanent’! Humans are not static their mind always used to be in constant change. If you are sad today, you will be joyous later! The feeling of sadness will not remain forever. One has to Strengthen his/her Mind. Our creator has given us a boon that’s Forgetting! It is not possible to remember each and everything happened in life. Memories fade with time, but need to patient in this hard-time and remember the following:
1. BE WISE, ACT WISE!
Life never ends with breaking up any relationship! Control you emotions, control your feelings. The one who truly loves you, will never leave you or break-up with you. Life is so serious don’t waste it worrying for those who have dumped you. Accept the reality! have positive outlook! Don’t keep hateful feelings on your heart, because it will never let you feel free 🙂
2. STOP LOOKING FOR OTHERS TO LOVE YOU:
Actually falling in love or being in love used to be truly awesome feeling, but remember you have fallen for someone! Why to look for others to love you. I’m not telling you to be single 😀 but talking about choosing the right one. It might be time or the person itself! Love yourself as much as you don’t fall for others before settling your own life! Do not crush your spirit for someone instead love yourself and be wise!
3. DISCOVER YOURSELF:
Past is past! Don’t look back and keep worrying.Be honest with yourself, accept the reality, face the truth, have faith in yourself! Start your days as its a precious gift from the creator/Almighty. It might not be so easy but its not impossible too. You are not the only one, there are millions who are feeling same after breakup! Ask yourself
- Whether these matters are so important than yourself?
- Why to give so much importance to others?
- Is it necessary to give so much space to others?
Ask yourself and try to find answers within yourself. Write down your answers and read it when you feel really low. This will truly help you from bringing you out this trouble!
4. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY:
Yep! spend time with your family members! Parents are the one who never wants to breakup with you. They can be angry at you for few minutes, but they will never leave you 🙂 They love their children much more than, their children love them 🙂 Spend quality of time with them. Share your inner feelings with them.
5. FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE GOALS:
Don’t turn back even if they (those who breakup with you) come back to you. Always remember, the one who loves you truly will never leave you, he/she will be with you irrespective you situation. Trust yourself, concentrate on your studies, set you life goals, study more, study deeper in your favorite subjects, so that it will help you to chose your favorite subject as your major subjects in higher studies 🙂 Keep dreaming and dream big 😀 Try to fulfill your dreams. You will automatically love yourself 🙂
Try applying the above points in life and remember, these love and breakup are just pages of a book, there are number of pages left out, which you have to come across 🙂 Never give up! One day you will look to these days and feel like thanking the who dumped you and made you stronger than ever 🙂 Have happy days 🙂